First - I have to "totally" agree with slimboyfat on this one.
Sweetpea - you said that PasswordProtected and family left with dignity. Did they??? As I have told PasswordProtected personally; he will have been disgraced, gossiped about and possibly slandered by his exjw friends - no honourable way out of the org exists!
When people DA or DF - what is the price they pay? The loss of family - surely a loss beyond measurement.
We have faded and it has worked out just fine - no hassle from JWs, they no longer have "any" hold on us what so ever and on top of all that we still have contact with ALL of our families. Sure, for some, DA DF may be the only options; but to suggest it as a course of action to be pursued to somehow create a "tipping point" in the org is simply someones dreams!!!
THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
JWs look at people who leave the org as if they are idiots, to be shunned, faithless and dead at Armageddon. Surely we have a greater chance of getting someone out the org if we maintain some level of contact.
As for Mr and Mrs Scotsman - I feel we have got out of the WTBTS with "a little" dignity - but only because we "did not" DA.
If people want to DA, good on them and I wish them all the best. But we have managed to escape by not DAing - and I am proud of that.
We have all got out of the org - lets just get on with our lives.